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happiness and money are not linked to

Xiao-Xuan need to ride to work every day. She felt every day in the wind,























Yu go, two legs to keep kicking, it's too much work. She is admired by those You Juzu, sun and wind do not have to, and labor-saving and time-saving, comfortable style. This is often compared to her mental imbalance slow and depressing.

one day she can listen to a friend abroad to come back, said a number of countries in Europe and the United States is now fashionable to ride a bike, ride a bike because it can save money, but also fitness, but also to solve the traffic congestion and environmental benefit. So many people at home do not have a car opened, devoted to cycling to work out. Girls hear this information, all of a sudden they feel that they are not a ride, "Ming Ku" and "lose face" of the matter, emotions are high up. Re-cycling every day, she felt in the exercise is to enjoy the scenery, no longer feel bitter tired.

Xiao-Xuan as a result of information provided by others to change the thinking and understanding, to regain the happiness of life, in which she is very gratifying. However, I think through this in-depth Xiao-Xuan should reflect on why their own unhappy past, and now almost what conditions did not change the reality, but also their joy of it? If you can realize from this point, what with the universal law of nature and nature, we will be easier to compare with the lasting happiness Jie Yuan.

were happy with Jie Yuan, in life we must oppose the "only money, I can be happy" mode of thinking. Because life was happy, our life depends on the attitude and spirit, but not so in what way of life itself; we depend on the course of the positive input and experience, not necessarily to obtain specific results. In this sense, a happy life comes from our own to explore, create awareness and, in some fashion, rather than the definition of other people's recognition and after comparison with others. Therefore, in order to live happily, is the need for awareness of the missing often is not a condition.

so happy is not required to attach any specific conditions, and there is no unified standard and to define more and no need for comparison to others. Said a happy sense of happiness that you want to be able to be happy, regardless of whether you are in line with local conditions, "indigenous launched" worth, you can always find suitable for your condition is not complicated, long-lasting stability in the happy way , And there is no need, and so on, say, clinging "... not ..." mode of thinking go. Qi Buwen such a poem it?

tea is also why intoxicating liquor and incense to the book, I do not have to spend.

sometimes more money, a sense of happiness Queyu less

Koyanagi and friends went to the countryside to ride in high spirits, she sighed and said: "If the money to buy a car, and then go out to play the more interesting!" On this well-informed but that the Lao Zhao : "Not necessarily! Money, and so you have both a car, not necessarily today, there will be interest and the momentum."

the 1960s, some people pointed out that wealth does not bring the pleasure of the increase in the proportion. Who even gives a formula: the effectiveness of monetary wealth is based on the value of the square root of the increase, that is three times the increase in wealth, the only double the pleasure.

the ratio is not very important whether it is appropriate, it is important to note that it has money in people's hearts the value of the value of its surface is not entirely about. A dollar to a beggar and a rich man's "feeling" is obviously different. By the same token, when you get the money from the face value of it is on the increase, it brings you the psychological value is not necessarily increased, and even may have a negative impact.

if the 70's, a young Chinese could be because of a Phoenix bicycles and two years of feeling happy, but now only two hours or even days. Large industrial happy to make the effectiveness of reduced greatly shorten the validity period of happiness. TV ads show the dizzying enjoy modern, urging the replacement rate of consumer goods; electronic media so that people know too much, so that an unlimited strong target in comparison to homes, harassment of the turns. People's way of a happy way to catch up, never on the market can not keep up with counterfeit or genuine happiness increase. A sense of joy in this extremely tired of the race chasing increasingly diluted.

people expect the size of the money, but also affect the value of money caused by psychological. In this regard, "the higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment, do not have, the stronger sense of happiness" is established. A deposit of more than one million people frown all day, other people asked him why he was sad, he lamented that the poor themselves. Others could not understand that you have a wealth of millions of poor also call what he said nothing million, compared with 1,000 million people, not their own is a poor wretch? On the "high standard" in line of his, we have reason to believe that, even with tens of millions of dollars, he is still not happy, because he will be pegged on the billion. We can see that people have access to money, there should be a reasonable expectation. Otherwise it will lead to make life difficult for themselves and their own.

cooling hope you look forward to all of a sudden psychosocial rich

many from buying a lottery prize in the small, left brain, "lottery, lottery tickets," and "winning, winning." Gradually, over the days when she felt the more disappointed that only tickets in order to bring her spirit of the lottery, only to get her interested.

how in the shortest period of time become a millionaire today is the people's pursuit of a dream, the dream of countless people, with fighting in the stock market, buying lottery tickets. However, hoping to get rich too, should try to cool prices that you looked at all of a sudden psychosocial look forward to getting rich. Many people dream of the total of all of a sudden made an unexpected windfall, so that their carefree, happy to live. In fact, if it were not for the acquisition of wealth on their own hard work, courage, ability and wisdom gained happiness will be short-lived and limited, because it can not have a corresponding sense of pride and achievement. This is a look at the rich man's children will know. For these people, born rich, is not an easy conscience because they rely on their wealth rather than ability earned.

can see people's wealth should be a sense of balance, such as the treatment of lottery tickets to become not only a life of leisure, and investment as a way to support public welfare and should not put too much, too persistent, too obsessed . The natural weight, and also did not survive.

is our money or our money?

Over the years, Wen is to make some money, which the body can not live day by day a mark. Fatigue is like driving a car, the more run-huan, may be more casual.

only to see Wen-Wen to spend money like water, do not know if difficult to make money. Negotiations to come, pro-signed to a contract, check to the pro-filled. Split-free operation, the distraction trouble.

New Year's Eve night I would like to go back, there is no free day! With Mr. You Yuan, and mother-in-law has been the face of indifference, the hotel as home decoration, also divide the family as a hotel.

not too much money, bed down and sleep. With the money, but the old do not sleep the middle of the night.

Wen-Wen proud to make money, make money Wen-Wen tension. From the inside out, a feeling of: "tired!"

Wen-Wen is suffering from "epidemic to make money syndrome", fatigue, stress, loneliness, fear, suspicion could cause her physical and mental collapse of the instant.

psychologists believe that people with wealth of psychological adjustment after the city has become a new topic. This social phenomenon can not be blamed for our society to create more opportunity to get rich quick, or should focus more on those who own wealth.

those who find themselves become wealthy people often do not feel the unique excitement and happiness, is often replaced by the sense of loss, a loss and uneasy impetuosity. SARS epidemic is not just money to make money itself, some of the symptoms of SARS, including incompatible with friends or other people's envy generated by the resentment and so on. Some of the new rich people who also have so much money to feel guilty, but they are afraid to lose. Some people become rich after a lot to a lot of money, and some are even how to use their own money in this small district can not make a decision.

we can better manage the money?

British "Sunday Telegraph" reported that a 24-year-old young girl, a high school 375,000 pounds of lottery tickets, about more than 480 million yuan. This does not have regular employment and on-hand the difficulties of young people is more than happy to find it. However, she bought a car to drive but will not buy many new clothes but pressure at the end of the box. She is still not used to eating delicious meal and eat more low-cost chips. In addition, she still can not find a job, to sit at home bored to death.

scholars cited in this report, an analysis of other cases, about 70% of the winners become despise labor, gave up their jobs, lost their interpersonal fun. There are people who moved into a new house better, but it was excluded from the surrounding neighbors. Some people have been coveted by friends and relatives, the three pro-six from the money it wants to grab a slice of fortune, staged a noisy ex grievances and resentment. In addition, the winner also encountered the problem of identity, of which most people can not tell which belongs to his class, but lost the spirit of the feeling of belonging.

Yangtze like the original study, a lot of friends, rich and colorful life. All of a sudden a gift to her overseas relatives of a property. The property had, the Yangtze to buy a house purchase furniture from high-end restaurant under the entertainment, do not want to read books, do not wish to contact friends. However, the property has just been that excited for some period after the Yangtze feel that the more disappointed over the day. What she can not afford to have the spirit of what she can not afford to let interest. Later, the Yangtze, said with deep feeling: "no money, I have pursued, I also know that the wealth of their own. And so on following the money I do not know what the pursuit."

and case studies show that a person's wealth generation and his ability to control the wealth between a synchronous relationship between the people in the accumulation of money while also learning to master the money. If you do not experience this process, it will lead to psychological or social imbalance. Money too easy to indulge in the illusion of people will become impractical and lost money, clearly, and with him the situation of the spin-off. The study also shows that if this amount of money Once they run out of his inner world and life in the world back to normal and orderly.

from poverty to wealth transfer can always maintain the psychological balance, to a large extent depend upon the rich people in the life of the new re-issues, to find important and valuable things he would like to be clear: I actually Want to be what kind of person? What I want to have what kind of life?

Do not attempt to let your money in the hearts of the overwhelming rejection of all other meaningful way of life position that case, bring your money is not a psychological value, it will greatly     Although the depreciation of the value on the surface It may be in a constant increase.

small test: falling into the "Qian Yan," look at the psychological

how to handle your money? Following testing, we can see your way of life and character:

1, you have to write text messages, there is too much paper on hand, you have to do:

A, the paper wrote half of the tear; B, the greater the interval to write; C, do not consider such issues.

2, accidentally falling down a few coins, Gulu is not easy to remove, you will:

A, one by one as far as possible to retrieve the money, afraid of laborious and time-consuming; B, not care, leave for good; C, deeply sorry, but the only time-consuming search for those afraid of taking the good.

3, students will treat you to dinner, do you:

A, according to their own tastes Meng, no matter can not be eaten; B, will bear the consequences could eat away; C, eat as much as possible, not afraid of pluggin in order to avoid waste.

method of calculation: 1 title: A a 2, B 1 point, C was 0; No. 2 title: A a 2, B was 0, C 1 point; No. 3 title: A must 0, B 1 point, C was 2 hours.

results of the analysis:

0 points, or 1 minute, it seems that you have a tendency to waste in spending money on frivolous performance in the future should know how to learn to treasure.

2 pm to 4 am, to congratulate you, you are treated very sensible money, money will not be money as well.

5 minutes or 6 minutes, you have a bit of money "corruption", you should be clear: money is used for what?