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just out of the school of the University of the British-Xi (a pseudonym), less than a year on a two-for-work, and when he came to the third unit, the personnel manager, read his resume, said: "You are very good, oh, or A son, I do not know how the quality of the psychological kind. "Let this British-Xi hear is not a pretty taste. This is more than a year, the event of a dispute between colleagues, he always will be the only son in his capacity as the "application of different standards."
China now has the feeling of young British-Xi more than one person. Since the beginning of 1978 cities and towns in the full implementation of the one-child policy, have a child is the first in the 21st century workplace into the preliminary. China currently has 80,000,000 one-child who will be the backbone of society. By the quality of their psychological attention. Reporters interviewed Psychology, Chinese Academy of Sciences, Dr. Zhong Yang and the Sociology Department of Nanjing University, Professor Feng Xiaotian, their only child's psychological problems has made some answers.
child is not bad psychological
very independent child. A popular view is that the spoiled child, unable to bear hardships, depends heavily on. However, the professor who chaired by the wind, a study compared with the one-child-only-child in the choice of work, occupational adaptation, interpersonal relationships, marriage and love in such areas as different, the results showed that in the choice of work, the child's independence Some more. Completion of their studies, their only child take the initiative of the candidates more, and not one child is adopted by family members, relatives looking for work more; in other areas, the difference between two types of people are also very small.
easy to get along with one child. As the one-child family is at the center, close to their loved ones are unconditional love, this is often one-child relationships as is only right and proper. As a result, many people believe that the one-child self-centered, not easy to get along with others. This is it? Dr. Yang told reporters that the United States grotte psychologist and his colleagues confirmed that a study: The only child of a high divorce rate than non-only-child - if the child is really self-centered, not easy to get along, they The divorce rate should be higher. Researchers believe that the one-child relationships ushered in the test of time, if good personal qualities, are often able to adjust their own good.
child is not alone. In addition, the job market is not difficult to find, the new generation of the vaccine alone were not like to participate in certain group activities, many people prefer to separate activities such as reading, writing or stamp collecting, and so on. Dr. Yang Jiazhong that, although the only child to enjoy more alone, but this does not mean that their poor communication skills. As the only child of parents of more active exchanges with them, they are vulnerable to the development of more child than non-language skills will not be shown to Muna. In addition, the study found that, although the one-child-child ratio of non-small circle of friends, their friends are more solid and lasting relationship.
one-child career achievements
Dr. Yang Jiazhong believe that the child into society, the timely adjustment of mind, to overcome some of the psychological vulnerability, there are many unique advantages.
for example, as early as 1904, psychologists have studied the birth order, intelligence and the relationship between the achievements. Reveals the intelligence and family size, from one-child families than in the big family of children who grew up in the child's intelligence quotient even higher. This parent-child for more investment in education.
1970 years of statistical research "Time" magazine, appeared on the cover of the man and found that long-child and children occupy a greater proportion. Foreign scholars, the parents of the child-rearing more similar to the length of their children's education, high expectations, demanding, spoiled child of the more than we imagine.
China now has the feeling of young British-Xi more than one person. Since the beginning of 1978 cities and towns in the full implementation of the one-child policy, have a child is the first in the 21st century workplace into the preliminary. China currently has 80,000,000 one-child who will be the backbone of society. By the quality of their psychological attention. Reporters interviewed Psychology, Chinese Academy of Sciences, Dr. Zhong Yang and the Sociology Department of Nanjing University, Professor Feng Xiaotian, their only child's psychological problems has made some answers.
child is not bad psychological
very independent child. A popular view is that the spoiled child, unable to bear hardships, depends heavily on. However, the professor who chaired by the wind, a study compared with the one-child-only-child in the choice of work, occupational adaptation, interpersonal relationships, marriage and love in such areas as different, the results showed that in the choice of work, the child's independence Some more. Completion of their studies, their only child take the initiative of the candidates more, and not one child is adopted by family members, relatives looking for work more; in other areas, the difference between two types of people are also very small.
easy to get along with one child. As the one-child family is at the center, close to their loved ones are unconditional love, this is often one-child relationships as is only right and proper. As a result, many people believe that the one-child self-centered, not easy to get along with others. This is it? Dr. Yang told reporters that the United States grotte psychologist and his colleagues confirmed that a study: The only child of a high divorce rate than non-only-child - if the child is really self-centered, not easy to get along, they The divorce rate should be higher. Researchers believe that the one-child relationships ushered in the test of time, if good personal qualities, are often able to adjust their own good.
child is not alone. In addition, the job market is not difficult to find, the new generation of the vaccine alone were not like to participate in certain group activities, many people prefer to separate activities such as reading, writing or stamp collecting, and so on. Dr. Yang Jiazhong that, although the only child to enjoy more alone, but this does not mean that their poor communication skills. As the only child of parents of more active exchanges with them, they are vulnerable to the development of more child than non-language skills will not be shown to Muna. In addition, the study found that, although the one-child-child ratio of non-small circle of friends, their friends are more solid and lasting relationship.
one-child career achievements
Dr. Yang Jiazhong believe that the child into society, the timely adjustment of mind, to overcome some of the psychological vulnerability, there are many unique advantages.
for example, as early as 1904, psychologists have studied the birth order, intelligence and the relationship between the achievements. Reveals the intelligence and family size, from one-child families than in the big family of children who grew up in the child's intelligence quotient even higher. This parent-child for more investment in education.
1970 years of statistical research "Time" magazine, appeared on the cover of the man and found that long-child and children occupy a greater proportion. Foreign scholars, the parents of the child-rearing more similar to the length of their children's education, high expectations, demanding, spoiled child of the more than we imagine.
